The Re-Up/Revamp

I literally haven't blogged anything in over 4 years and its safe to say that so much has been happening. Life has been happening. I got married December 2011. Learning how to run a house hold and being a good wife has not been the easiest of tasks but I can honestly say that I have been trying to do the best that I can do and personally challenge myself each time to just go one step further, one step further in everything I do for my home and my husband. However in saying that I have become quite slack over the pass few months. WHY?


On the 31st March, one interesting morning, life decided to throw another challenge my way. I found out after years of trying that I was PREGNANT. You will not believe how shocked I was at 5am looking at that darn test. I literally told the stick "no that cant be possible" welp it was and my husbands reaction was priceless. The 1st April we took another test just to double check and yes of course again it showed positive. Immediately when I got to work I tried calling my dr who conveniently was on leave. I eventually managed to get hold of another dr who then could only see me on the 22nd of April. I mean really having to wait almost an entire month just to get 100% full proof confirmation that I really am pregnant was abit hectic. When the time came and we went for our very first check up, there the baby was. Tossing and turning while I am speechless and in shock and my husband emotional and teary eyed. That was undoubtedly one of the best moments in my life. My last month of pregnancy was abit of a toughy to say the least but low and behold on the 1st October 2015 at 13h05pm our BEAUTIFUL baby boy was born. The moment that put him next to me in that theater I fell inlove on a whole new and different level BUT I shall get into the experience later. So this is why I have been a slacker of a wife lately because all my attention and love has been going to my soon to be 5month old little boy. Let me just say that it has been LIFE CHANGING. I look at him and think "WOW that grew inside of me. GOD is amazing" The new journey in my life has had its fair share of moments. Like everything we go through it brought on its fair share of ups and downs, good times and bad times and yes he is still young and we have many, many paths to walk with him but for now what I have learned thus far, its all just been an experience of a life time. So much so that I cant wait until we start planning on baby number 2 because really now little did I know I would feel this way BUT, I ACTUALLY MISS BEING PREGNANT. Some women would call me crazy but no I really do miss the experience.

So as you can see LIFE has been quite interesting and then to add even more juice to it all, we all bought a house, FINALLY. We will be moving soon and when I say soon I mean in a few days. Something new coming our way again, quite interesting hey but most times I feel like we have been extremely favored and blessed. However over the pass few days I have been really thinking about my blog and getting back into it again because it is also my means of venting. So here I am, lets see how much it lasts this time :)

Late Nights

I often find myself staying up late at night well mainly because some nights I am tired but just can't seem to fall asleep but think its a good thing because it gives me a chance to just think. Think about all sorts of things, things pertaining and relevant to my life,things pertaining to others and the list of thoughts goes on and on. In all of this I learned quite a few things about myself and many other people. One would say what can you possibly learn by just thinking well you would be amazed.

The mind is a powerful thing,it allows you to see things and objects in so many different aspects each with its own point of view. So in way it basically helps you decide what would be more suitable and comfortable for yourself. This is how I learn things about myself and others on a daily basis. Friends are able to come to me and confide in me so easily why?
Because I allow them to speak and say what's on their mind and whilst doing that I would take the time to think about a possible way to help and shed some light on anything that's bothering them showing them that you care enough to take the time to think about them and find a way to help them.

So I strongly urge you all to take the time and think. Think about yourself and what you can do for you then think about others and what you can do for them. You will you see your blessing in abundance cause the more you do the more you will be rewarded for you efforts. Even if you only spare 5 minutes to some else it will mean more to them then anything else

16 December 2011

This is the day when i will be entering into holy matrimony with the man i believe God has set out to be my life long partner. We have been dating for three years now and we have like everyone else had our fair share of up's and down's even whilst planning our wedding it wasnt all fun and agreement with everything done and wanted. We have had our moments there as well.

One thing i do know is that come this day everything thing i have every gone through in my life before my fiance came into it and even whilst he was in it. Everything will all be worth it, all the heartache and pain, all the good times and bad. On this day i will be able to walk with my head held high and so will he, because just like me his experienced it all. We will walk together become husband and wife and smile because we have achieve something we thought we wouldnt before we met each other.

Its the best feeling ever and even though we know getting married isnt gonna make life easy because we will still have our ups and downs we know we wont have to go through it alone like all the years before, this time around we have our partner by our side to go through it with us.

Sorry

I have been so slack with my blogger its just not funny. But i have been extremely busy, not only with work but with my personal life as well. Planning a wedding is not the easiest thing to do on the planet but, it is well worth it.

I have been warned by so many people that planning a wedding is so hard but i always thought they were teasing me. However i soon found out that it was not a joke and that it is very hard to plan. They did tell me though that if the two of you can make it through the planning you can make it and you will make it through the marriage. That i didnt believe either and once again it has been proven that the advice is right.

I will try my best to write on my blogger again in the hopes that someone out there is reading and enjoying everything i write.

2011

Even though we are already 4 months into the new year, i still think its never to late to speak about it. So now that we are into the new year for some it has been great for others it hasnt been great. There are people who believe there will be change in their lives this year and there are people who believe nothing will happen at all for themselves.

I personally think that lots is gonna happen this year and thus far for me its been an awesome year. Why??? because my lord our god above has been watching over me and protecting me and bringing nothing but goodness to my life in his name. this year is definitely a total difference for me because one of the biggest events in life will be happening. I will be getting married and im looking forward to the event and to my new life the only thing i take with me into my new life as i enter it that was part of my old life is GOD.

In saying that i believe its the only way to get through life is with trust, love, belief and understand that there is someone up above looking out for you and me and everyone else. here is to a wonderful new year and to lots of joy and happiness

Turning 27

Its not easy for me when its my birthday. I feel down and depressed but my angel of a fiance reminded me of what i managed to do in my 26th year. I got a new job,i bought a few things for our place and i got engaged.im so happy