A Saying

The Calm Before The Storm

I always wondered what people meant by that saying the calm before the storm. Cause quite frankly who knows when the storm is going to start or end in the first place so how can they use this saying or term and amazingly it would make sense at the time of it being said.

Well as dippy as i am and can be i think i have come up with what i think is explanation for the saying. For example for the past few weeks i was contemplating ending a long term and very long distance relationship and i thought that was the calm cause i wasnt sure whether i should do it or not. So when i eventually made my mind up and did it, when he realised that it was over he blew up. So actually my contemplation of the break up was the calm before and the storm was his reaction to the break up. Am i right?

Anyways i thought that storm would never end but it has recently started calming down again and things are actually better now then it was last week and the week before. So right now my point is i finally know what the calm before the storm is and it was definately worth it cause i now think its great being single.......

Enough of my rant now, think its time to get back to work (which i never do anyways, lol)

Break Up

Have you ever just gone through a time in your life where you faced with the task of having to break up with someone? You end up wondering is it the right thing to do or is it the wrong thing to do. Yet you firmly believe that a break up is essential and you feel its the only thing to do.

Right so you end up doing it, whats the feeling you get once youve done it? maybe you feel shocked cause you cant believe you actually went through with it or do you feel relieved that its all over? So then a few weeks down the line you realise "ok well i think i made a mistake", what is it you do?

Point of the matter is, you always sit down and think what would be best or what the right thing to do as far as relationship, life and even work is concerned but is that really the right thing to do or are you just tryna convince yourself that its the right thing to do? You face different challenges everyday that has you thinking is this right or is this wrong. i think that a person shouldnt just says is this right or is this wrong.i say ride the wave and see whats at the end of it, maybe its a good ride maybe its not but you wont know until you actually try it!!!!!